The Big Leap

Yesterday was the melting point of my working career I guess. I took my stuff handed back my company laptop walked out. This after I was falsely accused of some stuff a 2nd time. Plus the animosity in the office was at a all time high with people actually rubbing each other up the wrong way and back stabbing people.

So I started my own company and I managed to get a consulting position at another IT company for the time being to just keep the cash flowing while my partner and I get things moving.

I was amazed at Lady R when I told her the news last night. This woman truly loves me no matter what. I can not ask for a better woman in my life, Lady R is standing behind me all the way with this and for that I love her even more.

I know its going to be tuff but its worth the sacrifice.

So for now keep a eye out on the mobile front. Something is coming that will knock your socks off and make you wonder why other people have not done this already.

The Weekends almost gone

Friday started off with a crazy hectic work day and a client who just knows how to irritate the living daylights out of me. I was supposed to meet my lady at 5:30 and ended up racing home to get home at 6:30. I took my lady to Polana's for dinner and to meet up with friends. What a amazing start to a weekend. Spending the evening with the one person I love so, so much.

The Saturday was spent waking up early and heading for a meeting with Miss C who is managing the marketing and business proposal for our company. The meeting got off to a interesting start and we will be doing allot of innovative ideas. The rest of the day was just lazing around and going to the beach with my lady. We went to the same beach we went to on our first date and till today I can remember what shorts she had on, how she wore her hair and even what music was playing in her car when we drove there.

I was summonsed to a braai on Saturday evening and I ended up braaing. It was nice to sit with friends around a braai and just relax with a cold beer and talk about all kinds of stuff.

Sunday turned out lazy and i slept most of the morning. Had to go pay the bills and then had to meet up with Miss C and my partner for a final update meeting. There is so much to be done this week regarding out company but its worth it.

So for now I am looking at a relaxing end of my weekend with Bat man begins on TV and a cold glass of water.

I Need To Relax More

I had such a hectic week so far. With work keeping me busy and with the new company I am focusing on. I sold off my shares i had in another company, I decided to do that as the other partner was getting a bit to greedy.

Miss C and my new partner met up with each other at cubana on Tuesday after work. We discussed marketing and strategy for the new company. Miss C also told me that apparently my ex was going out with another guy a year before she left me and robbed me of all my furniture. I did notice she was acting different, I tend to pick up on these things fast that's why I prepared my self and took my heart back. being the nice guy I am I also moved into my spare room and gave my ex my room.

Well its over and gone and I am very very happy with the woman I have in my life now. The woman in my life now does not compare to my ex. not even by a mile . She is more a woman than my ex will ever be and more caring to me and to others. She is also more patient and understands that some times I have to work long hours. But that's not going to happen allot any more. Its just not worth putting in the over time just to pay the tax man and it besides I much rather spend time with my lady and my friends than sit at work till 4 in the morning.

On the relaxing side, I was so upset about some things this week. I thought I lost the person I care about in my life but it turns out the BEFH was the person behind the matters. Well soon things will be different, but that depends on the other person in my life.

Weekend with Friends

I spent Friday just relaxing after getting home from MR B's place. I seem to be the guidance counselor now in the group. I think its because of all my experience and what I have gone through. The problem is I can barely help myself but I have to help my friends.

MR B is starting to become a good friend and has grown quite a bit since I met him some time back. But more on this later.

Saturday was fun fun fun with MR M and his now Girlfriend picking me up to go out for drinks. I ended up dancing for about a good 5 hours straight and people looking at me funny, which I could not care a tos about cause I was having fun I was enjoying myself. Was fun closing off the world around me for 5 hours and letting the music take me to different places. Apparently according to Mr M some woman came to talk to me but I was so into my music and in my own zone that I did not even notice.

I also caught up with Craig, A friend of mine in Chile, Craig and Viv. have been engaged now for a year and wants me to come over to send some time with them. I started looking at tickets and its not to expensive at all. So the planning for my 2 weeks in Brazil and Chile has started, and it will take some time still to plan properly.

I also started looking at some property and think i have found the one I like. Its done up nicely on the out side but the inside of the house needs a lot of work though it looks promising with wooden floors and a high ceiling as well as a nice big fire place. I think I'll put in offer in the week and see what comes from it.

The Blog Is Back, I am Back

I took the week to think about moving this blog, And decided not to for now. So for the time being it will be here.

Lady R and I took some time to discuss some matters and we came to a good compromise. So for now there will not be much info on the two of us on this blog. All I can say for now is that I am happy Lady R has given our relationship a chance.

Work has been interesting these past weeks as I managed to secure Cisco Training for me and 3 of my staff members. The nice thing is that once we certified we will be getting direct access to Cisco with stock and support. This also means I can head up the Network Infrastructure Design department and move away from the dreaded Microsoft environment all together.

This week is going to be interesting, My flat mate is away for the week doing a new course and I am getting my Sofa I have been waiting for for such a long time. I am also meeting with Miss C regarding a project a friend of mine and I are working on later this week. Miss C is dying to meet Lady R and I hope Lady R can meet Miss C some time soon, Miss C and I come a long long way and have been though allot of the same issues in life.

Time For A Change

Hi All,

My Blog has moved to another spot. Please pop me a email if you have not recieved the new link. or leave a message here and I'll get it passed on to you ASAP

Seeing my love again

Well Lady R is back and it seems my previous blogs scared her a bit. The ones where i spoke about marriage. Well they weren't meant to scare her at all. They there as my thoughts and my expeditions to see if I am ready for Marriage. I found I am ready for marriage, ready to settle down, ready to be with that person I want to be with for the rest of my life.

So Lady R if you read this then I am sorry It was not meant to scare you. Its just me saying I am looking for long term, the days of my short flings are long gone and they bore me to death.

Lady R was very jet lagged and I would be to if i came off a flight and had to go to work 4 hours later. I hope to see Lady R once she is well rested as there is allot of questions and answers I need right now. things i can only ask once Lady R is rested.

The more I spend time with Lady R the more I realise that this relationship is built on friendship before anything else.

Lady R seemed very distantant tonight. I hope its due to the jet lag, but Lady R knows I am here if she needs to talk.

One Day to Go

One more sleep to go till i see Lady R, I cant sleep, I am thinking how nice it will be to see Lady R again, to hold her to hear her voice to smell her close to me. I am dieing to hear about her trip, to tell her about my weeks that's gone past.

My flat mate and I went to go see the parlatones in kirstenbosch this evening, they only played for a hour and a half but it was not half bad. Next is DNA Strings in stellenbosch with Lady R

Finding True Friends

It has been along week and this week just seemed to get me down. I had to go do site visits to every site that I manage and look after. MR J seems more relaxed now that we spent some time together over the week. I understand him more now.

I spent Friday night and Saturday working at a client. I know its bad but with Lady R not here and Lady R coming back on Monday I had to finish this project so I can have time with Lady R.

I chatted to Miss C last night, very good friend of mine, well even a better friend than I thought I had. Miss C and I worked for the same company years ago and we became good friends. Miss C ran into my ex on Thursday evening, I know I also thought my ex was in mosselbay but evidently she lied about that as well, My Ex asked Miss C if Miss C and I are and item and here is where I realized Miss C is a very good friend.

Miss C: oh by the way i saw your ex today in green point
me: huh?????
she still here?....
thought she f'd off to mosslebay
i know she and Jon is together or so i hear
Miss C: i got such a fright
me: heh
Miss C: she asked me if you and i were an item
me: lol what u tell her?..
Miss C: i said what’s it to her she messed you around so why should you not be happy
Miss C: aww thanks ;) i owe u some tequila hehe
Miss C: and that it was her loss clearly or she would not have asked me that question at all
me: thanks Miss C you a true friend and a rare find

And that was the just of the conversation. I’m happy for my ex if she found some one to make her happy but to me an ex is a ex for a reason. Obviously she is regretting what she has done.

I am very happy with where I am now and Lady R is by far a better person than my ex, In soul and in looks if i might say so.
Miss C is getting married in March and She asked if I will be able to go to her wedding. I'll have to ask Lady R first and see though.

Utter and Entire Shock

I had such a busy day yesterday that the guys form work and I decided to go out for drinks after work. Well busy and Mr. J was back in the office from leave so the tension was high by 10:00 in the morning already.

I got home and chatted to one of my friends on Google Talk. Mr Will told me that Miss Rose is pregnant. I nearly dropped off my chair and went to find my bottle Jack Daniels.

Why would I of had such a reaction well, I met Miss Rose when I was doing IT work for a digital X Ray company. She is young, 22 in fact, and working in a dead end job as a data capture / Debt clerk for a smallish X ray practice. She has no car but lives on the other side of town, She is renting a very small place and has almost no furniture and the biggest shock is she was so innocent and pure when I saw her last.

Some how, I can not see myself going through that. I kid is a very big responsibility and they cost a lot of money. I’d want to be married for at least 3 to 4 years before I have a kid, least want to enjoy my time with my wife and enjoy married life. I want to be able to give everything to my kid that I never had and that I had. I think that’s how all parents are.

But then again, a lot of my friends and I were chatting about kids and having them and all that kind of stuff. The one friend turned and said something derogative which in turn my other friend turned to him and said. “Well see. I am a happy mistake, you on the other hand are a planned misfortune” This kept my one friend quiet very quickly and also made me think. Maybe it’s better to just let it happen when the time comes and not plan to have children by a certain date.
Lady R and I chatted about kids and decided that we will be married for at least 4 years before we have kids. There is just too much things that we would love to do and experience together. Although I believe kids will be a joy with Lady R and they will be very beautiful kids.

Slow Weekend

The week went by with almost nothing to do, all I had to do was catch up on paper work and get my project paper work in order.

I am counting the days now, only 8 more to go till Lady R is back. Can not wait to hear her voice, hold her and know she is back again. There is so much I need ot talk to Lady R about and to tell Lady R and so much I want to find out about her holiday. There is also some things that I have to talk to Lady R about, Things that has been on my mind lately.

I have been chating to Mr. D quite a bit in the past 11 days and we been catching up on some old times and some good times. Mr. D has taught me alot in the past years and its always nice to chat to him about anything and everything.

2007 Begins

The work week began at a very slow pace, not much to do as most clients are not at full steam yet. This gave me time to do the dreaded paperwork and get everything ready for a fast year ahead.

I managed to get the ok from the boss to go on a Cisco and a HP networking course which means I am going to be signed in not to leave the company for the next 2 years but then again that’s fine by me, I am looking to settle down with a company and settle down with Lady R, and to do that stability is a good thing to have.

I heard form Lady R and she is having a blast in Paris, I just wish I was there. I’m looking forward to spending Christmas and new years with Lady R this year and all the other holidays and the rest of the years if God willing that is.

The more time away from Lady R the more I realize how special she is and how much she means to me, normally by now I’d of gotten board of waiting, but some how this is just different. I met one of the guys that used to work at one of the biggest mobile companies doing support on behalf of the IT Company I work for. I had to show Mr. A around the new clients he will be doing support for. In the driving around and showing Mr. A the clients we started chatting about the usual stuff. I saw Mr. A was married and seeing I am interested and curious I had to ask.

Mr. A met his wife and 3 weeks later knew she was the one. How did he know? He just knew, she just knew, the attraction, the signs it was just there. Six Months later they were married. Six Years later they have a kid and still very happy together. I also believe that if the signs are there then you better grab the opportunity. It’s not every day you meet a soul mate and it’s not something to pass up at all.